This is a monthly update on a personal challenge I set for myself in 2013. My goal: living lagom on $20,000 a year. See the Challenge page for past updates. Please note that these posts will be loooong.
|EXPENSE||FEBRUARY||YEAR TO DATE|
|In Home Entertaining||$0.00||$8.00|
Below are the new categories added this month. See January’s challenge update for an explanation of previous categories.
Toronto Trips: Throughout the year, I will likely take a few trips to Toronto. I lived in Toronto for over 10 years and that’s where most of my friends still live. I’ve decided to make this a separate category to record how much I spend during these mini-breaks.
Blog/Writing: Includes any expense related to running this blog, as well as any reference materials and writing courses that I take.
Electronics: Includes anything of the technological sort related to my iPhone or computer.
observations and insights
Here are my thoughts on this month’s expenditures:
- My groceries amount was pretty consistent with January. I continue to eat a mostly plant-based diet. I think there are areas where I could save more, but this amount seems sustainable to me.
- I ate out for the first time in 2013! I’d been craving a veggie burger and since I don’t really make those at home, I bought one. I also ate out while in Toronto. There’s a pizza place there that doesn’t have a location in Waterloo. It’s called Pizzaiolo and the Bianca pizza is my favorite. So good!
- I also treated for the first time. I bought my sister a latte and my friend a pizza slice for her birthday. I’ve decided to record these types of purchases under the Gifts category because I guess that’s what they are. They weren’t expensive gifts, but hey, they made me feel good and the person receiving them feel good too. I won’t highlight each time I buy someone something, but I thought I would share it with you this month since it’s the first time it’s come up.
- Overall, I spent approximately $450 on my sister’s baby shower, if you take into account the money I also spent in 2012. It would’ve been a lot more if it hadn’t been for all the ladies who contributed food to the party. I confess, I had to rely a lot on the dollar store for such things as decorations and paper plates. My inner treehugger wasn’t too happy about that. I did get to use my beloved mason jars as centerpieces and my gift was homemade.
- I had my first unexpected purchase. My iPhone charger stopped charging. No good. So I had to go out and buy a new one. Luckily, it was just the charger and not the phone.
- I didn’t buy any clothes again. Trust me: I will eventually need to buy some. Especially once summer comes around.
tips of the month
This month’s tips are entertainment related:
- Give yourself an allowance. Each week take out a certain amount of money for entertainment purposes. Keep it separate from your other money. Once the cash is gone, you’ll have to find other ways to get your entertainment (see last tip). You can also give yourself a monthly or yearly allowance for such things as iTunes, books, magazines, etc. I sometimes give myself an allowance when I go to restaurants to curb my spending.
- Set-up a special events fund. Some people really like going to concerts. Or museums. Or in my case, film festivals. So in addition to having a weekly allowance for entertainment, you should consider having a special events fund for things that happen less frequently. If you don’t budget for it, you may not get to attend, which would be sad and not really living lagom.
- Throw a party. Just because you’re on a budget, doesn’t mean you can’t throw a party. If it’s important to you, you need to make room for it. This could come out of your special events fund. You can also keep the cost down by making it a potluck and BYOB. Or if you want to do it all on your own, maybe have just one or two grand parties a year.
- Start a club. I’ve started and joined so many clubs in my life. They’re a great way to be social with people who share a common interest. And they don’t have to cost very much money if it’s something like a knitting club or a book club or an espresso club. So many options!
- Embrace free. There are so many ways to get our entertainment for free. You can borrow books, magazines and movies from the library. There are free ebooks, podcasts and videos online. You can find a blog on any topic you may be interested in. Not to mention all the free events that take place in your local community. Always remember that you don’t have to spend money to have a good time.
the living lagom part of the equation
Below is my own personal interpretation of how I’m living well on less.
Alas, there appears to be a bit of a love theme this month. It turns out I’m more conventional than I thought.
books of the month
For my fiction book of the month, I chose the classic Charlotte Brontë novel Jane Eyre. I’ve never read any of Brontë’s books before. I did see the recent film adaptation, but there’s nothing like reading the actual novel. It was a rather long book for a short month and there were some slow sections. But overall, I enjoyed it very much. I especially liked how Brontë talks directly to the reader at times. It’s like she was communicating to me from another world.
I have two favorite quotes from this book. Both are from the character Helen Burns when she’s speaking to Jane.
“If all the world hated you, and believed you wicked, while your own conscience approved you, and absolved you from guilt, you would not be without friends.”
And . . .
“It is weak and silly to say you cannot bear what it is your fate to be required to bear.”
For my living well on less pick, I chose Not Buying It: My Year Without Shopping by Judith Levine. It’s a memoir of a woman and her partner that decided to only purchase essentials in 2004 – before not buying challenges became en vogue.
It received low customer reviews on Amazon, but I thought it was an honest portrayal of the emotions someone trying to go a year without buying non-necessities would feel who is used to being able to buy what they like.
There were some tips in the book, like starting a garden, making your own beer, getting involved politically and in the community, utilizing your local library and creative gift giving. However, it’s mostly about her experiences (which coincided with the 2004 U.S. presidential elections).
If you’re interested, I would borrow this one from the library since there isn’t too much to reference once read.
movies of the month
I went to the theatre twice this month. I saw a special presentation of Battle Royale, which some (most?) would say is the original The Hunger Games. In this Japanese version, the children are from the same class, which adds a whole other dimension. Yes, it’s (very) violent. But it’s also a love story. Several in fact. Definitely worth seeing if you are a fan of The Hunger Games trilogy.
I also saw A Royal Affair. A Danish film that takes place in the 18th century during the reign of King Christian VII. It’s about so much more than a love affair. Alas, even in the course of trying to change the world, people still remain human. And it’s very difficult for a human to live without any character flaws.
I can’t let this month go by and not mention my favorite romantic movie of all time, The Princess Bride. I’ve seen it hundreds of times and quote from it on at least a monthly basis. There’s nothing like true love to bring back the (mostly) dead farm boy, so that he may be reunited with his Buttercup. Inconceivable? Well, what if I told you there was also a pirate, a six-fingered man, a giant, fire swamp, revenge and the greatest kiss of all time? Still not your goblet of Iocaine powder?
As you wish.
song of the month
This month’s song that was added to my granny’s playlist is Anyone Else But You from the Juno soundtrack. I prefer the version sung by the film’s lead characters, Michael Cera and Ellen Page. I like my love songs with a bit of quirk in them and this one fits the bill. Plus, I love the line: “We sure are cute for two ugly people.” Adorable.
Alright, alright, alright. I actually picked two songs this month. Greedy, I know. Especially since I recently wrote about one love. What’s downloaded, is downloaded.
My second (and more traditional) love song is Give In To Me by Leighton Meester and Garrett Hedlund, which is also from a movie soundtrack (Country Strong). Ever since I heard this song a few months ago, it’s been stuck in my head. I use that as a key sign that it should be added to my playlist.
Honestly, I just REALLY want to sing this song one day at a karaoke bar. All I need is to find a duet partner with a deep and raspy voice . . .
mind, body & spirit
I continue to do my morning affirmations and nightly prayer. I forgot to mention last month that I do a blessing before each meal by placing my hands above my food and giving thanks. Nothing grand, but I want to remind myself that I’m indeed lucky that I don’t have to worry about having food to eat, budget or no budget.
My yoga classes are going . . . okay. I was starting to feel like I was making progress, but sadly, I’ve regressed. I don’t know if it’s the structure of having to go to class on a certain day and at a certain time, but sometimes I get a little agitated during my practice. I do feel good afterwards though. I may just be better suited to practicing yoga on my own. I have one more month of classes to digest as much as possible, before the program is over.
I walked in a snow storm this month. It was quite enjoyable. I haven’t walked in that much snow in YEARS. It reminded me of when I was in grade school and my mom had to come pick up my sister and I because of bad weather. Since I was small for my age, my mom had to give me a piggyback ride all the way home so I wouldn’t get lost in the snow.
I’m trying to work on writing more than just this lovely blog. I need to stop writing stories in my mind and put them on paper (or rather screen).
favorite experience of the month
My sister Lizzie’s baby shower. I loved how my family got to spend time together, which doesn’t happen enough these days. I also really appreciated how almost all the ladies brought food and how others came early to set-up or stayed after to clean up. There’s no way I could’ve done it all on my own. My mom would’ve been so thankful for everyone helping out her girls. I’m thankful too.
Below are some pictures of my gift to Baby Coo-Ci Coo-Ci Coo (soon to be my favorite – sorry Lizzie).
Hand drawn card / Transfer of my mom’s bear (I’ll miss you!) / Recreated my sister’s baby blanket with her old duckie and my mom’s old pajamas.
So that’s the kind of February it was back in 2010+3.
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