This is a monthly update on a personal challenge I set for myself in 2013. My goal: living lagom on $20,000 a year. Please note that these posts will be loooong.
Here’s the first update of the year!
|In Home Entertaining*||$8.00|
* Estimated portion of meals amount.
I’m not going to go through all the categories every month. I’ll just update you on any new additions.
Rent: Includes rent for a four month sublet in a furnished bachelor apartment with some kitchen items. My rent includes utilities, cable (uh-oh), Internet and laundry. This is not the cheapest sublet, but I like it.
Transportation: I took the bus a few times this month. The rest of the time I walked or got a ride with my sister. We generally run errands on Saturdays, as well as go to the farmers market together. I asked her if she wanted gas money, but she said she’d rather I babysit once the baby arrives. Bartering at its best.
Cell Phone/Internet: I have an iPhone, so this includes voice, text and data plan. The data plan comes in handy when I’m out and about. I also can’t guarantee that I’ll have Internet included at my next apartment.
Insurance: Even though I don’t have dependents, I have life insurance. Why? Because I’ve learned from personal experience that having some insurance to handle a decease’s final affairs helps those managing their estate. I like term insurance. Full stop.
Laundry: I used the coin-operated laundry machines at my sister’s apartment before I moved out and I bought laundry detergent. This category would also include any dry cleaning that I do, which I normally don’t.
Groceries: Includes all meals, snacks and entertaining that take place at home. I received a $20 gift card for a gourmet food store for Christmas. This amount was not recorded in the total for Groceries, as gifts are exempt.
Household: Includes kitchen and bathroom supplies, as well as any equipment I purchase. I had to buy a kettle, glass food containers and a few other items when I moved into my new place.
Grooming: Includes any hair and beauty products, as well as haircuts.
Entertainment: Includes books, coffee shops, eating out, movies, music, etc. I received $40 worth of Starbucks gift cards for Christmas . . . that’s why that number is so low. I also have a movie gift card for $25 that I haven’t used as of yet.
Gifts: Includes any gifts that I buy throughout the year. I’m throwing my sister a baby shower, so that’s her main gift, but I’m also making something for the baby.
Yoga: I decided to take yoga through a community program. The cost includes 12 classes.
Baby Shower: I had to rent a church hall for my sister’s baby shower as quite a few ladies are attending. The shower is next month, so there will be added expenditures such as food, drinks, decorations, etc. Even though I’m a minimalist, those in attendance are not.
observations and insights
The mantra for Your Money or Your Life when recording your expenses is: no shame, no blame. You’re just confronting the truth about the choices you’ve made in your life. So with that in mind, here’s what I learned this month:
- I feel like I spend a lot of money on food. I did move into a new place, so I had to stock up on some basics. However, if I include the gift card I received at Christmas, I spent nearly $200, with almost 15 percent of that going towards snacks. Snacks! I have an idea on how to address this, that I’ll share with you in a future post. I didn’t eat out all month, which could also explain the higher food amount.
- That being said, eating an (overall) healthy diet is important to me. There aren’t many coupons out there for broccoli and I’m not really a coupon clipper. Plus, I like to try to buy organic products when I can, especially if they’re on the EWG’s Dirty Dozen. Some things are non-negotiable.
- I sure like Starbucks . . . but we already knew that. It will be interesting to see what this amount will be next month, since I no longer have the gift cards to rely on.
- I bought a magazine. Magazines are an old gazingus pin** of mine. I bought it because one article caught my eye. Instead of making sure I would want to read the rest of it, I just grabbed it. I find this happens a lot with magazines. There’s usually just one or two items that you want to read, but you get suckered into buying the whole thing. Next time, I’ll read the article on the spot or on my next visit to the library. I do subscribe to MoneySense magazine. I don’t pay for my subscription, as I redeemed Air Miles to get it.
- Another gazingus pin of mine appears to be reusable coffee tumblers. (I get the irony.) At first, I wasn’t going to mention buying a new one. But I need to be true to myself in this challenge. I didn’t need a new tumbler. I just wanted one. I did take a few days to think about it before I purchased it, but it was definitely an indulgent purchase. I will donate my other one.
- I didn’t buy any clothes this month. Not a stitch.
- I also didn’t give any money to charity. I generally spend my 1 percent charity fund closer to the end of the year. I will update this category with any donations made before then. I’m thinking a part of my fund should go towards my local library as I’ve been relying on it heavily for books and movies.
- Even though my numbers are unique to me, there may be some similarities with your own budget. For example, you may not be hosting a baby shower, but perhaps you throw a monthly dinner party or need to plan three kiddie birthday parties a year.
- I wouldn’t say tracking my expenses is fun per se, but it has been very eye-opening. I probably should’ve done a bit of a pre-track before announcing to the world my challenge. But overall, it looks like I’m still on the road to meeting my goal. Though every month is different. Time (and the numbers) will indeed tell.
** Gazingus pin is any item that you have a hard time passing by without buying.
tips of the month
This month’s tips are food-related. Even though I feel I spent a lot on food, it would’ve been worse if I hadn’t followed the below:
- Eat a plant-based diet for one month (or longer). Can’t do it? Then just during the week. Still too hard? Fine, one day a week! C’mon, you can do that.
- Cook all your own meals for one month. No eating out. Just one month.
- Pack a lunch! I don’t mean just for work, but on weekends too. Once I get into the car with my sister on our weekly errands run, I have no idea when I’ll get back home. My sister is the queen of detours. So all month long, I packed some food whenever we went out, so that I wouldn’t be tempted to buy something while on the go.
the living lagom part of the equation
Now that we’ve looked at the numbers, it’s time to measure if I was really living lagom. Wait a minute . . . you can’t measure that! I know. So you’ll have to settle for my own personal interpretation of living well on less.
books of the month
I love books! But I noticed that I’d been mostly reading non-fiction. In fact, I couldn’t remember the last novel that I’d read. (Lies. It was Fifty Shades of Grey.) So I’ve decided that each month, I’ll read a book of fiction that intrigues me. First up: Brave New World by Aldous Huxley.
What an amazing book! Parts of it seemed vaguely familiar, so I may have read this in high school. I highly recommend this book if you haven’t read it or if you haven’t read it in a long time, it’s worth revisiting.
My takeaway is that I would rather live in an imperfect world with meaning, than a “perfect” world without any. And that I’d definitely be sent to an island.
I’ll also be reading a book each month on living well on less. This month I read, Money Secrets of the Amish by Lorilee Craker. Lorilee wanted to learn how she could apply some of the money savvy of the Amish into her own family’s life. I too find the Amish intriguing, so I enjoyed getting a little peek into their lives.
The main tips I took away from this book are: you don’t have to buy something new to buy something good, limit gifts to children, wear things out or find a different use for them and you can get cheaper food by buying directly from farmers.
movies of the month
I also love movies (almost as much as books). I only went to the theatre once this month. I saw Les Misérables. I liked it very much and sang all the way home.
I borrowed many more movies from the local library. I particularly enjoyed the movie Anonymous. I was never really into Shakespeare in high school, but then my friend co-created a comic entitled, Kill Shakespeare, and now I find him very fascinating indeed. Plus, I love a good conspiracy theory.
Other worthy mentions include Inside Job, a documentary about what really happened in the lead up and aftermath of the Global Financial Crisis. As well as, We Need To Talk About Kevin. A very disturbing film, especially in light of the recent tragedy in Newtown, Connecticut.
song of the month
All the music that I own is digital. My grandmother gave me $20 for Christmas (the kid is on a budget too). I decided to put the money onto my iTunes account. Each month this year, I’ll pick a song and think of my granny. She might even get her own playlist.
For January, I’ve selected My Way by Frank Sinatra. I think she’d be happy with my Ol’ Blue Eyes selection, since she’s missing her own Ol’ Blue Eyes. However, she may not appreciate my future choices . . .
mind, body & spirit
Each morning after I wake-up, I like to do some affirmations. It’s a excellent way to start the day on a positive note. I made some of them up myself and borrowed some from other people. I also do a nightly prayer to give thanks for all that I have.
I signed up for yoga. I thought it was time to upgrade from the fake yoga moves I’ve been doing and get the basics down. I’m taking classes through a community program. It’s very low-key (read: no lululemon), which is great because when I tried taking classes at larger studios, I felt a little intimidated. Plus, the teacher is really friendly and practically a pretzel.
I also did a lot of walking, including walking through a local park on the weekends. It’s refreshing to be out in nature, even if it’s frozen.
And finally, I wrote. Definitely good for the spirit.
favorite experience of the month
I had my friend Pam over for lunch at my new place. I can’t count the number of times she’s made me meals and the most delicious cappuccinos. So I finally got my chance to treat her. I recreated a vegan sandwich we had at a restaurant once, with mango and dark chocolate for dessert. Hopefully, this can become a regular experience.
I wasn’t kidding. These posts will be looong. While I hope you get something out of reading my updates, I’m also writing them for myself to see what kind of progress I make over the course of the year.
I’ll add a link to this post on the Challenge page. That way everything will be organized in one central location.
One month down . . . eleven to go!
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